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In a toot from yesterday I asked what Black men owe Black women if we are to be in community with one another?

[and thank you to everyone who read that thread who was not Black and sensibly chose not to answer that question -- because it was not meant for y'all. thank you.]

The amazing and prophetic thinker and activist @ImaniBarbarin talked about the consequences for our Black community, which blew my mind.

I'll describe what's happening in her Tok:

She's reading a comment on one of her earlier posts. The comment says 'Y'all don't get it. We don't give a shit what you say. Stop crying and defend yourselves. You're strong and independent.'

She agrees that Black women will 100% defend ourselves.

Then she says: But lemme ask you something, though. Do you fit the description of a threat?

She's effing brilliant.


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This is a complex conversation, as @ImaniBarbarin points out in her other posts on TT.

Because the upshot is division. A rending of community by white supremacy. It will be easy for unthinking neo-lib types to watch this conversation and waaaay down deep feel their fear of Black men is justified.

It will be easier for our brothers to fall down a rabbit hole of right wing patriarchal propaganda
since 'uppity Black women who don't know their place' are now a shared enemy.

And if Black women, who have been historically -- and continue to be -- the bulwark and connections for multiple liberatory movements not only have to fight The Man but also *our* men - how sustainable is that? That's exhausting.

But here we are. Good job, Patriarchy+White Supremacy. You won this round.

This was too good not to share.

*ARE* we reading 'too much into things' when we say the Brick Conversation has some serious implications for our community's liberation?🤔

Because Steve Bannon certainly had a thought about how to split Black solidarity.

[via @ImaniBarbarin on TT]

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