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Diligence Jones

So the big conversation happening now among my friends and associates is about travel, privacy, and safety when coming in close contact with TSA, ICE, or whoever wears a gotdamn uniform of some kind.

We're all reading that article from EFF, looking up how to use burners, for dummies, etc. It's a lot.

Today, I let myself feel the anxiety at the thought of traveling without my regular devices. But then I was like, Wait. You've been here before. You didn't get a cellphone until....2001ish?

It was a Nokia phone. Not even a flip phone. Just a chonky Nokia, blue, with buttons and a screen to show me phone numbers. Did I have texting? I don't think so.

I went all the way to Amsterdam without a cell phone

There was no GPS. No maps. No scrolling. I traveled and read books or wrote about my random hook ups in my paper journal. I saved it all for my blog. I went to INTERNET CAFES.

That reassured me, a little.

Roll it back to 1998, folks. We did it before.

Maybe I should just turn one of my old phones into a Dumb Phone...

@DeliaChristina I'm too old and crotchety, lol. I'm just resigning myself to no international travel until this regime is gone. I had really hoped to visit New Zealand next year, but it will have to wait.

@BruceMirken

I'm just saying - we can go lo fi!

I mean, some grandparents -- all they have is a Cricket phone!

That'll work!

Just big ass buttons and 3 phone numbers on it.

@DeliaChristina Everyone will make their own choices. I am NOT handing my regular phone to CBP.

@DeliaChristina 1998?

I travelled around Europe by myself *as a child* in the '80s. Mobile phones weren't even a thing.

@DeliaChristina I did it but I was always, always lost. But kind of gloriously lost a lot of the time…

@Jackiemauro @DeliaChristina here’s to all who have no sense of direction or distance!!!!

@DeliaChristina @littlescraps

🤣 when people talk about “finding your people” on social media, I think this is it.

@Jackiemauro

I'm literally Joey in Friends, stepping into the map of London to find the way to Big Ben.

@Jackiemauro @DeliaChristina yes been so nice to learn I am perfectly normal cause of all of my people on here. #actuallyautistic

@DeliaChristina @Jackiemauro oh yes, I can’t use the apple GPS… it keeps talking and then I miss my turn… should not tell me next turn until I do first turn. Then tells me to return to route… like I know how to do that you bleeping bleep bleep. I hate google cause it fucking ruined searching the internet for info but the GPS doesn’t make me get lost.

@littlescraps @DeliaChristina zero. Just precisely zero. I really shudder to think what would have happened to me were I born in an age where I had to like get around in a forest.

@Jackiemauro
I call myself the Al Gore of Directions.
My directional instincts are always wrong.

@DeliaChristina HA!! I love that. It’s amazing that I can be wrong more than a random draw would predict. But I consistently am.

@Jackiemauro @DeliaChristina oh dude I am so much worse than I understood my whole life. But learning this was a thing with AuDHD. I tested it with my husband in the woods. And my brain spins me right and left randomly. So freaky.

@littlescraps @DeliaChristina

Totally!! Sometimes I try to visualize a map in my brain and it literally just spins this way and that.

@DeliaChristina I accidentally left my phone and watch at home this week. After a moment of sheer terror, I just got on with it, drove to my destination, and asked someone to call a cab for me when I got to my destination.

@DeliaChristina

Rip the relevant pages out of the Let's Go travel guide and get some actual paper maps.

@DeliaChristina I did a solo holiday to Japan 25 years ago. No mobile roaming. I'm not sure I even took my phone! Barely spoke the language, but knew enough to navigate with maps and signs. And some tours. Some friends were surprised I did this, but I had a ball. Paper maps for the win! Even got lost in Kyoto at one point. :)

A few years later I went to the north-east US. Bought a NY map when I got there and other maps as I needed. And I used Internet cafes.

We get so spoilt with what our modern devices do.

@DeliaChristina next time I go overseas I'm just taking my old Nokia with 4G support. Calls? Yep. Camera? Sure thing.

Ah for simpler days....

@DeliaChristina I want to do that, but so many airlines/hotels/car rentals/etc have online or email only registration. So you have to account for that.

I almost had an issue last year when I flew and hadn't clicked through on the plane reservation to get the online-only boarding pass. :/

At the gate, awkwardly holding my laptop open to try to scan the QR code while also juggling my backpack and roller bag, then the laptop goes to sleep, I gotta sign back in with my 32 character password ... The line is grumbling behind me louder and louder...
@Khyrie @DeliaChristina

@Khyrie @DeliaChristina In Europe most airlines have an option to print out qr code and check in with that. Is that not an option in USA?

@CosmicCactus @DeliaChristina it is an option. Im just comparing to the flight check in experience of 10-15 years ago when you talked to a person and didn't need digital tools to get on your plane

@DeliaChristina I travelled the world last century before I had a mobile phone. I rang my sister from a phone box in Iceland in 1985 to hear she had had her baby.
I had a very small address book, 2" x 2".

@DeliaChristina We DID do it before, and we lost some of the best of that when we moved into this frenetic tech life. IMHO. Yes my smartphone has opened up worlds for me, but sometimes I miss reading a really good book, getting lost in that world. Days of relaxed contemplation. Feeling more grounded, more *physical* v cerebral, like now.So yeah, we got 5his. 💞💞🤗

@DeliaChristina true that same here. Didn’t get cell phone till 2000… couldn’t afford it. But will have to have something for GPS. Cause I am directionally challenged. I am not making that part up. I have no accurate sense of space and distance… part of my AuDHD. I wonder if my old car GPS is still around.

@littlescraps @DeliaChristina
I really enjoy going on those group tours because the guide takes care of all the logistics and I can just be a kid again and let the "adult" handle the directions.

@DeliaChristina
Yep. I've never traveled internationally "with" my phone.

(That kinda tells you how long it's been 'cause my reasoning was that I couldn't afford coverage outside the US.)

Internet cafes FTW.

@DeliaChristina I did it, and had printed maps to get around. And then I got onto one of the diagonal streets in Manhattan that I thought was a parallel one and realise I had walked several blocks south and east of my hotel on my last day and had to run to avoid missing my flight.

I travelled to Brussels with printout maps of the city from Google Maps and discovered that every street had three names: The one in French, the one in Dutch, and the one on Google Maps.

I had a flight delayed on the way home and had to dig out a phone number from my laptop (which, fortunately, I was carrying) to let people I was meeting know, using the pre-paid card for the phone booths at the airport. On a previous trip I had been flying to Tokyo and my flight was delayed in the middle of their night, so the only way of letting the folks I was meeting know was to send an email (they had phones with email, because Japan was in the future) and hope they got it because I had no way of receiving a reply.

Much more recently, I travelled with a working phone whose external speaker was broken, so nearly missed the call from the taxi driver that he’d arrived and was there to collect me, and had similar problems with taxi apps on the phone.

Travelling without a working phone is certainly possible and something I’ve done. But it’s been an enormous stress reduction to have one. And a lot of the infrastructure that was around when I didn’t have one has gone because most people do have a phone now.

@david_chisnall @DeliaChristina
also, having no phone doesn't stop US creeps in uniform from locking you up, so it doesn't solve the biggest problem with traveling (back) to the US

That’s a really good idea.

Factory Reset, only put back the minimal things you need.

@DeliaChristina

@futuresprog

I think i have my formula:
📴Old phone
🚫Factory reset
🎴New sim card

I told a friend that this must be what philanderers do.

It's so complicated!

@DeliaChristina Yeah, the problem is less with how smart the phone is and more with how much private information ends up on them.

@DeliaChristina yeah, Gen X is the best prepared for technology to collapse. We lived without the internet and we're comfortable with being uncomfortable for a bit.

I agree with your sentiment, but Google Maps has been a nice thing to have, especially after moving to Detroit this past year and having to learn my way around.

I ended up buying a second phone that I keep in my truck. It has a google account for only signing in on that phone, and I do not use it for anything else except listening to NPR perhaps.

If I have to travel that is the phone I will bring with me. There is probably a better way to do this, but this works for me so far.