squifish<p>So I just added the <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/TellMePlease" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>TellMePlease</span></a> to my account because I welcome feedback, critique &amp; whatever. <br />I have a lot of takes based on my individual privileged experience, and I&#39;ve changed over time because one of my privileges is amazing people who have taught me better and taken time &amp; energy to discuss &amp; teach.<br />I intend to discuss &amp; teach the same things I discuss here in the future, passing along that privilege. if it offends or is incorrect in either direct or nuanced ways, I want to hear it.<br />I can&#39;t guarantee I will agree, but I promise others have changed my mind and I promise to continue to change going forward. <br />If I&#39;m disrespectful, I want to know not just do it by accident.<br />So <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/PleaseTellMe" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>PleaseTellMe</span></a> - I&#39;m thinking of it as the proactive consent seeking</p>