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Eric Jennings<p>for many years i had an existential dread/fear of remembering/facing my childhood abuse. every time i got close to it, i would become paralysed with fear and/or run away, turn to drink or drugs, and otherwise avoid it</p><p>if you&#39;re a <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/MaleSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MaleSurvivor</span></a> of <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/SexualVictimization" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>SexualVictimization</span></a>, especially as a child, i am here to say that finally going there was not only not as bad as i expected, but also quite freeing and liberatory</p><p>it really *does* get better, and i only began to heal after i was able to face/accept what happened, and to learn to talk about it. staying silent for so many years was more psychologically damaging than the abuse itself</p><p><a href="https://menhealing.org" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">menhealing.org</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>
Eric Jennings<p>i wrote about a thing that i hope will offer some <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/hope" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>hope</span></a> to anyone (but <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/MaleSurvivors" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MaleSurvivors</span></a> in particular) who has struggled with the after-effects of <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/SexualVictimization" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>SexualVictimization</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.killyour.guru/who-am-i-this-time/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">killyour.guru/who-am-i-this-ti</span><span class="invisible">me/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://sfba.social/tags/SexualAssault" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>SexualAssault</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/SexualAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>SexualAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/csa" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>csa</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/MaleSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MaleSurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/SexualHarm" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>SexualHarm</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/CPTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>CPTSD</span></a></p>
Exist Otherwise<p>Obviously, I am not a <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/LitJournal" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>LitJournal</span></a>, I am a <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/person" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>person</span></a>. My name is Eric Jennings (he/him). </p><p>I am a <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/writer" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>writer</span></a> and <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/VisualArtist" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>VisualArtist</span></a>. My experiences as a <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/MaleSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MaleSurvivor</span></a> of <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/SexualVictimization" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>SexualVictimization</span></a> informs my work.</p><p>I am also known as: <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/ErwinDink" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>ErwinDink</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/ccbovarysme" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>ccbovarysme</span></a> and <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/patamystic" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>patamystic</span></a>.</p>