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James Russell<p>Toxic Masculinity Snowflakes<br><a href="https://youtu.be/sP2Kr5frFiU" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">youtu.be/sP2Kr5frFiU</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/toxicmasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxicmasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/toxicmasculinitymonday" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxicmasculinitymonday</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/petehegseth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>petehegseth</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/petehegsethfoxnews" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>petehegsethfoxnews</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/whiskeyleaks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>whiskeyleaks</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/signalgate" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>signalgate</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/politics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politics</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/politicalcomedy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politicalcomedy</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/politicalhub" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politicalhub</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/politicalcomedian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politicalcomedian</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/politicalcomic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politicalcomic</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/politicalsatire" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politicalsatire</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/politicalhumor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politicalhumor</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/livestream" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>livestream</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/podcast" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>podcast</span></a></p>
Carmen Zedler<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://hellions.cloud/@dannotdaniel" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>dannotdaniel</span></a></span> make <a href="https://mastodon.bida.im/tags/weakness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>weakness</span></a> great! <a href="https://mastodon.bida.im/tags/patriarchydown" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchydown</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.bida.im/tags/toxicmasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxicmasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.bida.im/tags/trump" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trump</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.bida.im/tags/musk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>musk</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.bida.im/tags/fascism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fascism</span></a></p>
A Sweet Gentleman<p>"Protecting girls" from trans people:</p><p>"Hall “screamed and shouted” at the player “you’re a fucking boy and shouldn’t be playing in a girls side...”.</p><p>"After the abused player left the field in tears, her father approached Hall informing him he could not speak that way to his daughter, to which Hall reaffirmed his belief that the abused player was a boy and should not be playing in a girls team."</p><p><a href="https://www.telegraph.co.uk/rugby-union/2025/03/28/rosslyn-park-fc-cobham-rfc-under-12s-transgender-abuse/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">telegraph.co.uk/rugby-union/20</span><span class="invisible">25/03/28/rosslyn-park-fc-cobham-rfc-under-12s-transgender-abuse/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/lgbtq" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lgbtq</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transgender</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/sport" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sport</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/terf" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>terf</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/toxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxicMasculinity</span></a></p>
Airplanista 🇺🇦<p>At the airport Tuesday for my volunteer gig, was talking trucks with a pax, and he asked what I drove. "Lemme guess, F-150?"</p><p>He seemed stunned when I said "1995 Toyota T-100 that still runs like brand new and gets 25 MPG."</p><p>I didn't get the <a href="https://squawk.mytransponder.com/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> gene. I do not need a giant 4x4 diesel truck, a Harley, a 22YO girlfriend or watch UFC to feel like a man.</p><p>Real men lead with kindness (when someone deserves it), and treat women with respect, full stop.</p>
Victoria Stuart 🇨🇦 🏳️‍⚧️<p>Actual "grooming" threat: Far-Right Manfluencers Grooming Lost Boys<br><a href="https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/how-far-right-manfluencers-are-grooming" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">unclosetedmedia.com/p/how-far-</span><span class="invisible">right-manfluencers-are-grooming</span></a></p><p>* Nick Fuentes, Andrew Tate<br>* rise in domestic abuse/physical violence/terrorism</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TransLivesMatter" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransLivesMatter</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TransRights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransRights</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/WomensRights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WomensRights</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/HegmonicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HegmonicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/manfluencers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>manfluencers</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/JoeRogan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>JoeRogan</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AndrewTate" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AndrewTate</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NickFuentes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NickFuentes</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/DonaldTrump" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DonaldTrump</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ElonMusk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ElonMusk</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/GOP" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GOP</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/paternalism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>paternalism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/incel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>incel</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/IMVE" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>IMVE</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Trump" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trump</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/fascism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fascism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Christofascism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Christofascism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/transgenocide" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transgenocide</span></a></p><p>CAVE: collaborate/advocate/vote/educate</p><p>Transgenocide: <a href="https://mastodon.social/@persagen/114186381298087870" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">mastodon.social/@persagen/1141</span><span class="invisible">86381298087870</span></a></p>
txt.file<p>Ich denke Usha <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/Vance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Vance</span></a> allein hätte einen halbwegs okayen Ausflug haben können, aber ein Mann hat den Ausflug ruiniert.<br>Ein Mann der es nicht zulassen wollte, dass seine Frau ohne ihn Freude erlebt.<br><a href="https://chaos.social/tags/toxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/toxischeM%C3%A4nnlichkeit" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxischeMännlichkeit</span></a></p>
Dominik Dammer<p>"Tätermachung vs Objektivierung – Die ausgebliebene Emanzipation des Mannes"</p><p>Ein philosophischer Artikel über Vorurteile zwischen den Geschlechtern. Darin beschreibe ich die Folgen typischer Verhalten, die Benzin ins Feuer des Patriarchats kippen. Und wie man dem entgehen kann.</p><p><a href="https://blog.dominik-dammer.de/tatermachung-vs-objektivierung-die-emanzipation-des-mannes" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">blog.dominik-dammer.de/taterma</span><span class="invisible">chung-vs-objektivierung-die-emanzipation-des-mannes</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/philosophy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>philosophy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/philosophie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>philosophie</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/geschlechter" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>geschlechter</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/gender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gender</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/patriarchat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchat</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/sex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sex</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/sexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sexism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/feminism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>feminism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/blog" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>blog</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/femicide" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>femicide</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/toxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/woman" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>woman</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/men" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>men</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/maleLoneliness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>maleLoneliness</span></a></p>
Nonilex<p>Eeeewwwwww, <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Trump" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trump</span></a>’s comment saying, “We’re gonna have tremendous goodies in the bag for women too” has such creepy dick in a box vibes.</p><p><a href="https://masto.ai/tags/law" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>law</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/SexualAssault" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SexualAssault</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Rape" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Rape</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/MaleSupremacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MaleSupremacy</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Rapist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Rapist</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/RapeCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RapeCulture</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Women" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Women</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/MayaRudolph" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MayaRudolph</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/KristenWiig" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>KristenWiig</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/AndySamberg" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AndySamberg</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/JustinTimberlake" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>JustinTimberlake</span></a></p>
Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈<p>British Culture...</p><p>" two RAF engineers out on a bender in Berkshire."</p><p>This is why we can't have nice things, belligerent drunken men. But don't anybody try to change that culture, don't anybody appear woke, for the 'boys will be boys' must be maintained, how dare anyone stop the boys doing what they want!</p><p> <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/mar/25/judge-accuses-pair-of-wanton-vandalism-for-destroying-paddington-bear-statue" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/society/2025/m</span><span class="invisible">ar/25/judge-accuses-pair-of-wanton-vandalism-for-destroying-paddington-bear-statue</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PaddingtonBear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PaddingtonBear</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/UK" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>UK</span></a></p>
A Sweet Gentleman<p>Talking about toxic masculinity.</p><p>As a trans guy I DREAM of having a beard.<br>But I also know that my masculinity has nothing to do with it, the same way it has nothing to do with what is -or isn't- between my legs.</p><p>Cis guys could learn a thing or two from us in that matter.</p><p><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/mar/25/the-sudden-surprising-rise-of-beard-transplants-this-industry-is-a-wild-west" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2</span><span class="invisible">025/mar/25/the-sudden-surprising-rise-of-beard-transplants-this-industry-is-a-wild-west</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/lgbtq" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lgbtq</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transgender</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/hrt" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hrt</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/transman" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transman</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/ftm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ftm</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/men" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>men</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/beard" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>beard</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/masculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>masculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/positiveMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>positiveMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/gender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gender</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/GenderAffirmingCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GenderAffirmingCare</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/hair" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hair</span></a></p>
A Sweet Gentleman<p>As with school shooters, let's stop giving free publicity to toxic masculinity and instead drown them in Positive Masculinity like these kids do.</p><p><a href="https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/tiktok-manosphere-sexedforguys-1235302892/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">rollingstone.com/culture/cultu</span><span class="invisible">re-features/tiktok-manosphere-sexedforguys-1235302892/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/manosphere" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>manosphere</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/lgbtq" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lgbtq</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/women" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>women</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/men" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>men</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gay</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a></p>
INTENTIONALLY blank<p><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/4FFQ926B1P8" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">youtube.com/shorts/4FFQ926B1P8</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p>Toxic masculinity is really out there ruining it for everyone...</p><p>Storytime: </p><p>I was busy doing my job when two ladies came into the library. They looked like sisters and I thought they probably were. </p><p>One of them came up to ask for help locating a certain book. While I was searching the catalog, one picked up a book from the Most Wanted, "The Lies He Told Me" and waggled it towards the other who said, "Girl, I could've written that!" The women then told me they'd once been married to the same guy and were now besties. </p><p>First woman: "I'm the first wife..."</p><p>Second woman: "And I'm the third, there was one in between."</p><p>Me: "Wow, when they start to form a club..."</p><p>Them: "Yeah, there was a second, but we don't want her in our club."</p><p>I gave them their info and wished them a great day together.</p><p>"Manly" men, let's do better, ok?</p><p><a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Lavender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Lavender</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/ExWives" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ExWives</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Friendships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Friendships</span></a> &gt; <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/RomanceDrama" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RomanceDrama</span></a></p>
Life on the Wicked Stage: Act 3<p><strong>Adolescence: A Review</strong></p><p><em>Adolescence</em>. See it.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;I’d like that to be all that I write about this sensational limited streaming series on Netflix, but there’s more I want to say.</p><p>You’ve probably heard of <em>Adolescence.</em> It’s become a well deserved hot topic of conversation because it’s an excellently done piece of storytelling that cuts through what seems like an impenetrable zeitgeist like a hot knife through melted butter. I’m glad to see that the hype tour surrounding its recent release ramp up after the series took off because something this good needs to be ballyhooed, bravoed, and brandished with flying banners. </p><p>For me, the bottom line, beyond just saying “see it” is that the producers and artists involved captured something we all know in our gut and make us face it. Captured it in a challenging way that they didn’t need to, but by accepting that challenge opened up those gut instincts with a rawness that touches nerves we may have all let somehow deaden. The painful intimacy of one family’s story opens up a chasm full of realizations that speak far beyond the specific issues so well portrayed.&nbsp;</p><p>In brief, a young boy is accused of stabbing a young girl and through the investigation we delve into a world of young boys and men influenced by Incel culture and bullying. A world not understood in this instance by the young boy’s family, or any one of the parents’ generation that we meet in the story. Watching the investigating detective’s son educate his father is a remarkable scene. </p><p>We follow the story through the boy’s arrest, booking and indictment, examination with a therapist, and the devastating conclusion as the family deals with the aftermath. Every moment is powerful.&nbsp;His arrest in the first episode is only the beginning of story that digs into every emotion there is when confronted with horrible moments that one would hope no family would ever have to endure. I can’t imagine any parent of young children, especially boys, watching this without wanting to take the doors off of their child’s bedroom doors and disconnect them from the Internet. It is tough to watch and it’s impossible to look away.&nbsp;</p><p>Toxic masculinity, patriarchy, bullying, isolation, fear, self-loathing, and the perils of social media become bigger monsters by the moment than any knife wielding attacker.&nbsp;</p><p>Director Philip Barantini, known for filming his stories in one take, uses that device to exquisite effect. He didn’t need to, but he and his team did and the payoff is exquisite. Each episode unfolds like a one-act play, filmed in one amazing traveling take. In later interviews it’s been revealed that they only did two full takes after a weekend’s rehearsal for each of the four episodes. The one take keeps you riveted as it ratchets up the tension, never letting you catch a visual breather from the story. How they filmed the second episode which takes place in and around a school is almost beyond imagining.&nbsp;</p><p>The cast is superb, especially 13-year old Owen Cooper as the young boy. In his acting debut he delivers a performance that is so outstanding that it takes your breath away. He’s not only a natural, his performance borders on the supernatural. Stephen Graham, who also co-authored the story with Jack Thorne, plays the boy’s father and strikes true in every millisecond he is on the screen. Well known for playing in-your-face tough guys, Graham’s journey through this story is like watching a rock face that has been the feature of a cliff, let go and crash into a million pieces. The rest of the cast is equally up to the task of matching these amazing performances.</p><p>The back story is that Graham, hearing about crimes featuring young boys stabbing young girls, felt that questions needed to be asked, the obvious one being “why is this happening?’ As is the case with all good drama and story telling <em>Adolescence</em> raises as many questions as it answers others. Certainly I imagine parents who see this, and they all should, will be asking the same questions the mother and father in the series do themselves.&nbsp;</p><p>On a larger scale, as we daily face an adult and supposedly mature world that seems stuck in adolescent, if not prepubescent misbehavior, celebrating toxic masculinity, bullying, and the perils of social media, this amazingly told story might at least give us a glimpse into how we looked away too often, when we knew we shouldn’t, ignoring so much at the cost of even more.</p><p>You can’t look away from this.&nbsp;</p><p><em>You can find more of my writings on a variety of topics on Medium at&nbsp;<a href="https://medium.com/@WarnerCrocker" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">this link</a>, including in the publications&nbsp;<a href="https://medium.com/ellemeno" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Ellemeno</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="https://medium.com/rome-magazine" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Rome.</a></em>&nbsp;<em>I can also be found on social media under my name as above.&nbsp;</em></p><p></p><p><a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/adolescence/" target="_blank">#Adolescence</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/entertainment/" target="_blank">#entertainment</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/film/" target="_blank">#Film</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/incel/" target="_blank">#Incel</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/movies/" target="_blank">#Movies</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/netflix/" target="_blank">#netflix</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/reviews/" target="_blank">#reviews</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/social-media/" target="_blank">#SocialMedia</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/streaming/" target="_blank">#Streaming</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://warnercrocker.com/tag/toxic-masculinity/" target="_blank">#ToxicMasculinity</a></p>
Mactonex<p>Just bingewatched Adolescence and fuck me this is seriously good television. Each episode is a single shot. Stephen Graham cements his reputation as one of the best actors of his generation (the best?) and Owen Cooper gives a performance that makes you forget he’s acting. An absolute tour de force. <a href="https://toot.community/tags/adolescence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adolescence</span></a> <a href="https://toot.community/tags/StephenGraham" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>StephenGraham</span></a> <a href="https://toot.community/tags/tv" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tv</span></a> <a href="https://toot.community/tags/drame" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>drame</span></a> <a href="https://toot.community/tags/toxicmasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxicmasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31806037/?ref_=ext_shr_lnk" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">imdb.com/title/tt31806037/?ref</span><span class="invisible">_=ext_shr_lnk</span></a></p>
(((Cindy Weinstein)))<p>Coleman Spilde is right. Essential tv for all: "I’d go as far as to say that "Adolescence" should be required viewing for all teenagers, &amp; certainly a condition of having a phone. If a teen wants to be tapped into the digital echo chamber, they have to know what it can do to them. Goodwill &amp; hope that parents will raise their children correctly aren’t enough when the worlds inside of their phones can undo all of that learning."</p><p><a href="https://www.salon.com/2025/03/18/adolescence-explores-the-dark-consequences-of-teenage-boys-being-radicalized-online/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">salon.com/2025/03/18/adolescen</span><span class="invisible">ce-explores-the-dark-consequences-of-teenage-boys-being-radicalized-online/</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://zirk.us/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> <br><a href="https://zirk.us/tags/Incel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Incel</span></a> <br><a href="https://zirk.us/tags/Adolescence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Adolescence</span></a></p>
(((Cindy Weinstein)))<p>Coleman Spilde is right. Essential tv for all: "I’d go as far as to say that "Adolescence" should be required viewing for all teenagers, &amp; certainly a condition of having a phone. If a teen wants to be tapped into the digital echo chamber, they have to know what it can do to them. Goodwill &amp; hope that parents will raise their children correctly aren’t enough when the worlds inside of their phones can undo all of that learning."</p><p><a href="https://www.salon.com/2025/03/18/adolescence-explores-the-dark-consequences-of-teenage-boys-being-radicalized-online/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">salon.com/2025/03/18/adolescen</span><span class="invisible">ce-explores-the-dark-consequences-of-teenage-boys-being-radicalized-online/</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Incel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Incel</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Adolescence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Adolescence</span></a></p>
MusiqueNow :pride: ✡️ 🇵🇸 :anarchismhebrew:<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwxHhih9RaY" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?v=rwxHhih9Ra</span><span class="invisible">Y</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://todon.eu/tags/LBC" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LBC</span></a> w/ <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/JamesOBrien" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>JamesOBrien</span></a> </p><p>Why are <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/youngmen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>youngmen</span></a> so susceptible to <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/toxicinfluences" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxicinfluences</span></a>? </p><p><a href="https://todon.eu/tags/GarethSouthgate" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GarethSouthgate</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://todon.eu/tags/men" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>men</span></a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/uomi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>uomi</span></a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/hommes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hommes</span></a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/hombres" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hombres</span></a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/manosphere" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>manosphere</span></a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/toxicmasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>toxicmasculinity</span></a></p>
MusiqueNow :pride: ✡️ 🇵🇸 :anarchismhebrew:<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/SuFv0iIAsiY" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">youtube.com/shorts/SuFv0iIAsiY</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> </p><p><a href="https://todon.eu/tags/TurnLeft" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TurnLeft</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://todon.eu/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/farright" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>farright</span></a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/Manosphere" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Manosphere</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://todon.eu/tags/GarethSouthgate" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GarethSouthgate</span></a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/Adolescence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Adolescence</span></a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/ShaunDavies" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ShaunDavies</span></a> </p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.green/@ZackPolanski" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>ZackPolanski</span></a></span> : Too many <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/youngmen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>youngmen</span></a> are turning to 🤮 Reform UK🤮</p>
Jonathan Emmesedi<p>We must ensure that the celebration of classical ideals of masculine beauty does not become the exclusive terrain of the right wing cranks of the manosphere. </p><p>Image: Reconstruction of the Diadumenos of Polyclitus by a patinated cast at the Pushkin Museum, Moscow -- By shakko - Own work, CC BY 3.0 -- Wikimedia Commons</p><p><a href="https://c.im/tags/Diadumenos" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Diadumenos</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/Polyclitus" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Polyclitus</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/GreekArt" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GreekArt</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/ClassicalSculpture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ClassicalSculpture</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/GreekAntiquity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GreekAntiquity</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/MasculineBeauty" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MasculineBeauty</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/Beauty" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Beauty</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/Manosphere" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Manosphere</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a></p>
Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈<p>You can deal with this problem, or you can attack 'woke', you can't have both.</p><p><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/mar/19/group-of-labour-mps-seeking-to-steer-young-men-away-from-toxic-influencers" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/society/2025/m</span><span class="invisible">ar/19/group-of-labour-mps-seeking-to-steer-young-men-away-from-toxic-influencers</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AdolescenceNetflix" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AdolescenceNetflix</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Manosphere" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Manosphere</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SiliconValley" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SiliconValley</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TechBros" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TechBros</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ToxicMasculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicMasculinity</span></a></p>