@spyro
I love Debian. But it gets painfully long in the tooth towards the end of the stable release cycle. I used to just jump to testing
after stable was out for the year, but the whole xz thing last year scared me off of that.
I have software I can't update because I'd have to compile the compiler in order to get it to compile, because it's so old. I can't remember what exactly, but I think it's written in Nim.
Don't get me wrong, I do not like the software treadmill. It makes no sense, and it doesn't make for a stable infrastructure. But I don't think there's any changing it, and a two-year update cycle for desktop use is becoming untenable.
The other reason why I'm looking outside of Debian is that I want a linux distro that's as easy to use and seamless as possible. I don't have any serious complaints about Debian in that regard, it's actually a lot easier to use in that regard than people give it credit for. But something that's just a little more windows like, I dunno. For example, graphical boot screens and LUKS password screens. Some distros give you a graphical boot from the very beginning, even when asking for the LUKS password. Some distros also show you a boot screen with the manufacturer's logo taken from EFI.
Really stupid little things like that that don't mean a hill of beans to nerds like us, but they have small, measurable psychological effects on new switchers from windows.
And of course, I'll have my coworker running KDE, because what the heck even is Gnome anymore? Some kind of unusably minimalistic Steve Jobs fever dream, that's what. #HotTake
(To be fair, Gnome is real purty. And there's something to be said for minimalism. Just not that much minimalism.)